Lifestyle Coaching for Transformational Growth
Welcome, everyone.
If you are here,
at this moment, this is the right place.
Welcome to About Gratification Lifestyle Coaching
I am, Dr. Robert James Goodman, coach, teacher, and author, together with Coach Denise.
As the founders of about gratification dot com.
We offer guidance that blends academic depth with lived experience,
helping others grow through wisdom, connection, and authentic practice.
Our research is rooted in emotional intelligence, sensuality, and the liberation
of self-awakening through conscious connection and the power of relational truth.
Our courses are designed to awaken the teacher within you, inviting you to uncover your own wisdom and step into deeper self-discovery.
Wisdom: The insight gained through reflection, awareness, and conscious choice.
It’s not just knowledge, it’s understanding applied to life.
Liberation: The freedom that comes when you release limiting beliefs, conditioning, and unnecessary restraints.
Liberation is both internal mind, emotions, body and external relationships, choices, and lifestyles.
Lived Experience: With over 22 years of coaching, teaching, and course development, our research is rooted in authenticity, clarity, and transformative insights.
Together, we create a safe and intentional space to explore deeper layers of awareness, authenticity, and pleasure awakening participants to a fuller, more connected way of being.
My academic and professional background includes
Bachelor of Humanities (1987), focused on the study of human experience, culture, and the art of conscious living.
Doctor of Philosophy (1990) specializing in wisdom, lifestyles, and relationships with a focus on personal development and alternative lifestyles.
Certification in Advanced Hands-On Training (2000) The Art of Conscious Clitoral, Stimulation.
Sexual potential and human sensuality, developed through 15 years of clinical, hands-on study, achieving proficiency in guiding and sustaining extended orgasm for up to one hour.
This video is an excerpt from, How to Do a Woman, It draws on 16 years of sexual research conducted by Drs. Victor and Cynthia Barranco, and their colleagues.
Seeking the understanding of my "why" is it used to:
Gain clarity?
Learn motivations?
Understanding my reasoning?
Understanding the true currency of self-value:
My value is unlimited.
My worth is without measure.
My price is what I am willing to accept.
Lessons in worth, wisdom, and the joy of becoming:
Embracing the infinite worth within, choosing faith and joy as my path.
Fun is the goal; love is the way.
All limitations are self-imposed.
Listen well but think twice before you speak are act.
Respect your elders but respect yourself first as a person.
As a scientist, whether I win or lose, I am still learning something, and I only fail if I quit.
I am Dr. Robert James Goodman, international bestselling author of these published books:
1. Unaware of Your Awareness.
2. The Cycles of Opportunities.
3. Perfection Includes Potential for Change.
These books chronicle my personal journey of overcoming racism,
rejection, and resistance in all forms to live a life filled with purpose, passion, and prosperity.
Honoring the Lineage & Legacy.
This research is deeply inspired by the teachings of Doctors Victor and Cynthia Barranco, whose philosophy of perfection and intentional living continues to shape a powerful lifestyle of awareness, authenticity, and connection.
I am, Dr. James, together with Coach Denise.
For over three decades, we have dedicated ourselves to guiding individuals, couples, and communities in deepening self-awareness, cultivating authentic relationships, and creating lasting transformation in every area of life.
Lifestyle Coaching + Transformational Courses
