Lifestyle Coaching for Transformational Growth
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Lifestyle Coaching + Transformational Courses
Welcome to About Gratification Lifestyle Coaching
I am Dr. Robert James Goodman, a dedicated coach, teacher, and author, alongside Coach Denise.
As the founders of about gratification dot com, we provide guidance that merges academic depth with lived experience, supporting personal growth through wisdom, connection, and authentic practice.
Our research emphasizes emotional intelligence, sensuality, and the liberation of self-awakening through conscious connection and the power of relational truth.
Our transformational courses are carefully designed to awaken the teacher within you, inviting deeper self-awareness as you uncover your own wisdom and embark on a fulfilling journey of self-discovery.
Wisdom is the insight gained through reflection, awareness, and conscious choice it's not merely knowledge but understanding applied to life.
Liberation signifies the freedom that comes from releasing limiting beliefs, conditioning, and unnecessary restraints, both internally in mind, emotions, and body, and externally in relationships, choices, and lifestyles.
With over 22 years of coaching, teaching, and developing courses, our lived experiences are rooted in authenticity, clarity, and transformative insights.
Together, we create a safe and intentional space for exploring deeper layers of awareness, authenticity, and pleasure, awakening participants to a fuller, more connected way of being.
My academic and professional background includes
A Bachelor of Humanities (1987), focusing on the study of human experience, culture, and conscious living;
A Doctor of Philosophy (1990) specializing in wisdom, lifestyles, and relationships with an emphasis on personal development and alternative lifestyles;
A Certification in Advanced Hands-On Training (2000) in The Art of Conscious Clitoral Stimulation.
My exploration of sexual potential and human sensuality has developed over 15 years of clinical, hands-on study, achieving proficiency in guiding and sustaining extended orgasm for up to one hour.
This video is an excerpt from 'How to Do a Woman,' drawing on 16 years of sexual research conducted by Drs. Victor and Cynthia Barranco and their colleagues.
Seeking to understanding my 'why' is essential to gain
clarity, learn motivations, and comprehend.
My reasoning, leading to an understanding of the true currency of self-value,
my value is unlimited,
my worth is without measure,
my price is what I am willing to accept.
Lessons in worth, wisdom, and the joy of becoming include embracing the infinite worth within and choosing faith and joy as my path.
Greatness lives in everyone.
The path is yours to find.
Fun is the goal; love is the way.
Recognizing that all limitations are self-imposed, I advise to listen well but think twice before you speak or act.
Respect your elders, but respect yourself first as a person.
As a scientist, I learn whether I win or lose; I only fail if I quit.
Inspirational & Reflective, I am Dr. Robert James Goodman.
An international bestselling author whose research bridges wisdom, self-discovery, and transformation.
Through my books
Unaware of Your Awareness.
A journey into conscious awakening and self-recognition.
The Cycles of Opportunities.
Discovering the hidden patterns that shape growth and transformation.
Perfection Includes Potential for Change.
Embracing imperfection as the gateway to evolution and grace.
Together, these works invite readers to reclaim their personal power,
rewrite their story, and live with greater awareness and gratitude.
Explore my books on Amazon
and begin your journey toward a more gratifying life.
These works chronicle my journey of overcoming racism, rejection, and resistance in all forms to live a life filled with purpose, passion, and prosperity.
Honoring the Lineage & Legacy, this research draws deep inspiration from the teachings of Doctors Victor and Cynthia Barranco,
whose philosophy of perfection and intentional living continues to shape a powerful lifestyle of awareness, authenticity, and connection.
I am Dr. James, alongside Coach Denise.
For over three decades, we have dedicated ourselves to guiding individuals,
couples, and communities in deepening self-awareness,
cultivating authentic relationships, and creating lasting transformation in every area of life.